The only technical news fit to print since Friday's update is the S&P 500's (SPX) new all-time-highs, which have officially validated my preferred Elliott Wave count of the past couple weeks. There's been no material change in the market outlook for a while, and there are only so many ways I can say "the projections still look good" -- so today we're going to explore three common psychological mistakes which can derail traders (or anyone, frankly), and some strategies to overcome those mistakes.
Emotions in general are the enemy of traders, but certain emotions can be particularly damaging because they start us down a long path which ultimately ends in self-defeat. Much trading advice has been written about greed and fear and similar emotions -- so I'm going to cover a more subtle topic: the emotion known (rather generally) as "discouragement."
Discouragement rarely hits us all at once, but tends to build over time in response to an ongoing series of setbacks and/or failures. As negative events pile one on top of another, we may gradually become discouraged with our own efforts. This feels like a "natural" response to the situation, so we often fail to recognize the immediate danger we're putting ourselves in: Discouragement feeds on itself and can easily become a self-fulfilling prophecy. Negative events beget discouragement; discouragement begets reduced effort; reduced effort invites failure -- and failure begets even more discouragement... rinse and repeat.
If not halted quickly, we can gradually spiral downwards into a dark trap of our own making.
In trading, this series of negative events often takes the form of a string of losing trades. With no big winners to break the cycle, we feel increasingly frustrated and ineffective as we watch our accounts dwindle. During these cycles, sometimes even the winning trades can make things worse for us emotionally. If you've traded even moderately, you will know exactly what I'm talking about when I say that during these "losing trade cycles," it seems we always manage to close the winners for negligible
profits only minutes before the market explodes in the direction we were hoping all along. I believe this is unlikely to be coincidental, and may actually be a result of our own mindset -- part of the "self-fulfilling prophecy" of discouragement.
I imagine virtually everyone has encountered this type of setback cycle at least once (probably more than once) in their lives and trading careers.
Ultimately, discouragement is an internal response to external events. And that's good news -- because while we cannot control the market or life itself, we
can control our reactions to both. In fact, sometimes our only weapon against forces larger than ourselves is the freedom to choose our own reactions. Granted, sometimes choosing positive reactions to negative events is easier said than done, especially when life seems to be kicking us while we're down. Life is difficult.
But it's critical to keep these negative emotions in check, because even moderate discouragement can and will create a
self-fulfilling pattern of failure if not halted immediately.
So let's discuss some of the psychological pitfalls that lead to (and at the same time embody) discouragement -- and how we can overcome them:
Pitfall #1: Being overly harsh with ourselves when we're already beat-up:
One of the worst things we can do to ourselves is to become overly harsh and endlessly self-critical at moments when our self-esteem is already suffering. Sometimes we speak to ourselves in ways we would never even consider speaking to another person, and this negative self-talk can be extremely damaging to us (just as it would be if we were speaking to someone else!). We sometimes justify this talk by telling ourselves it's a form of "tough love," and that we're using this harshness as motivation to improve -- but harsh self-talk doesn't motivate us when we're already wounded; all it does is discourage us even more.
If you just made a losing trade, beating yourself up afterwards simply doesn't help.
When our self-esteem is injured, the best way to position ourselves for
future success is to nurture that esteem back to good health by focusing on the positive things we know to be true about ourselves -- not to crush ourselves even further with negative self-talk. (Not surprisingly, the same is true when we're speaking to others whose self-esteem is suffering.)
Pitfall #2: "You can't fire me -- I quit!" syndrome:
Another common mistake is to quit an effort before the battle is truly lost. This is a self-defense mechanism -- it's a way to give ourselves the illusion of control by voluntarily giving up before we are (we assume) involuntarily defeated. This one may be the toughest of the three pitfalls, because there are times it is absolutely correct to give up -- so we have to understand both ourselves and the situation to recognize when surrender is the correct course, and when it's an emotional cop-out. Many times, we're quitting not because the situation is actually lost, but because we're discouraged and tired of the struggle.
The average millionaire has gone bankrupt more than 3 times in his or her lifetime. What separates those folks from the rest of the pack isn't luck, but the internal perseverance to pick themselves up and try again
even after repeated failure.
The second reason this pitfall is challenging is because we frequently offer compelling excuses as to why quitting is the right move, and eventually convince ourselves that we're "just being realistic." We tell ourselves that, gosh-darn-it, we tried our best -- but in the end, we just couldn't cut the mustard and that's okay, it just wasn't meant to be, blahblahblah. There is a short-lived sense of relief that comes with giving up, as the pressure is suddenly lifted. But it goes without saying that in order to reach one's full potential and discover what one is truly capable of, then one has
no choice but to push oneself beyond the limits already known, comfortable, and familiar.
If your goal is to go from being a losing trader to a profitable trader, then the only way to achieve that is to apply techniques you are not currently using. Those techniques will initially seem foreign, unnatural, and uncomfortable.
People are inherently goal-driven; without goals to strive toward, our
spirits gradually begin to atrophy just as an unused muscle would.
Pushing our own limitations makes us stronger.
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